It is happening...

Can we make it through?I knew it could be hard, but still, i am not losing my faith, for i believe you're my faith..What am i supposed to do..No matter what's your decision at the end, i will respect you..Dont be sorry, it isnt your fault..As long as you're happy, i am..A promise is always a promise...I am trying my best not to break them, and i believed i never so far..Promise me you'll always come to me if only i could help you with something..Thanks for telling me the truth..and i miss you for you left me a lot of memories...Nevertheless,I lost my excitement of going back..speechless...

Take care...With love...

Good News in Recent Months!

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BBQ Lunch =)

I have got some photos taken about a month ago...My friends and i actually went to Kings Park for a BBQ..That day was a public hol, not sure what was it already..haha...But i knew its quite a good day for all of us as we all dont have to think about work or studies..what we did was just ate as much as possible and had fun...cool...=)

This guy is Jun..a funny guy from Korea with big expressions..

"Study" the camera...wuahaha..the guy besides me is Kin, from China(JiangXi)...

Hmm...guys with sunglasses..haha..the one behind me is Jason, from Miri..the other one is Melvin, from Sabah..

Next...from right...Yen, from Sabah as well..Betty, from China(Tong Bei)...

The guy from left is from Korea(the other korean's cousin)..pai sei, dont quite know his name..haha..the one besides him is Jeff, from Penang..

Look at the shirt...Well he is actually a good man, we hang out a lot..used to be "my driver" before i can drive legally here...haha..he is Sean, also from Penang..

Fellow ladies...From left: Yen, Ako(from FuZhou, China)..Mandy(ShenZhen, China)..Betty..the last girl is from Japan..but dont know her name as that's the 1st time i met her, invited by others to join us...=)

Posting at 5am on SUNDAY morning...

Okay...its been a long time since the i last showing up at blogspot...Kelvin is back to rock & roll!!Came to work around 4am this morning, now having a short break with cup of hot coffee..=)

Well..Unfortunately one of my colleague hurt his knee, so i took over his shifts for the last 3 weeks..then a "full swing" to finish up those assignments...guess what...there's only 2 assignments left before my Cert. III is done in july, or perhaps end of june...wuahaha...

i had a great time yesterday...was actually working with Western Australian Electoral Commissions(WAEC), those citizens were sort of voting for a government referendum called "Daylight Saving Referendum"..At the polling place where i worked yesterday, there were 5 of us including polling place manager..

Same as the last election, all the staffs at the polling place are Aussie(Citizens of Australia), except me...that makes me special...haha..

Pai sei...got to get back to work now...haha...

TO BE CONTINUED...cheers

Re : Comments on the post entitled "Relationship"(stapokfamily blogspot)

Since my comments are requested by author, i got heaps of ideas in mind...haha...comment column is probably too small to fit in those ideas...Okie...Before that, i would like to make it clear that i am not trying to pick up anyone from our family as long as friends around us..Basically in everyday life, we actually meet people from all walks of life, as we can see, there are lots of differents ways of doing things, any of them can be neither totally correct nor totally wrong...Well then, what is the correct thing to do?We do think about all the possibilities, but can anyone be 100% about "their hypothesis and conclusion"?Not even scientists...

Basic Case Study

Conflict
I had a fight with someone at school, it is so serious that my school principal would like to have a coffee with my parents. But my parents are always busy with their work, got not much free time. So they felt quite annoying knowing that they have got "unfinishing work" to do, yet have to "spend" or "waste" time having coffee with my principal. So i was badly scolded, but they did not realised that the truth is, i was not the one who started the fight.

Possibilities from children

• Work is their only important part of life?
• I am not listening to them by having fight with someone else at school?
• Who cares about me?
• I was so called "neglected children"?
• Am i not good enough?
• Do i have to do something so that they's gonna pay attention to me?Maybe a little bit more?
• I am sorry for causing more troubles
  

Possibilities from parents

• Why on earth that my children is not listening to me?
• Arent they know that i am busy making money?
• I need money to raise them, no ones understands that?
• I love paying attention to you and i am trying my best to
• A coffee?oh pleeasee...
• Who started the fight?
• Did i neglected my children?
  

Conclusion
Lack of understandings and confidence on each others

As we can see, lots and lots of different thoughts...well, probably missed out some of them as they did not cross my minds...haha

Back to topic
How do we solve this conflict?Heaps of solutions..but which one is the best?who assured that solution is the best?Can that solution really resolves every "faulty thoughts"?Neither you nor me..

Nevertheless, we actually have take a step back, step along those so called "left behind foot path", and think again. By doing this, we probably still missed out the best solutions, but the new solution generated would be a better ones...

On top of that, we are not to look for someone to be blamed, instead, LOOK FOR THE SOLUTIONS TO MAKE IT BETTER!

At the end of the day, under different circumstances, people do think differently, and that is affected by daily experiences and everything around us, we might or might not know their reasons, but we do not possessed the right to decide that, unless opinions are requested...everyone did what they think "suppossed to be the best.

Just a simple question is more than enough to explain everything.

"How do we look at the world around us?"

5 Survival Tips for everyone(my principle)..

1. Stays optimistic
2. Endurance & Determination
3. Do not spend time on unnecessary matters
   
4. Looks back for ONLY LESSONS and looks forward for ONLY IMPROVEMENT.
5. Of course, stays cheerful=)!
   

Good luck everyone...

Birthday Presents~~

I turned 19 years old...well...as far as i remembered, still an little innocent child, my memory started at Sri Aman..then moved to Kuching...where i grown up and second part of my memory started...hmm...should i say the most interesting part of my memory so far...Here i am now, in perth, at the age of 19...Alright, below are some of the presents i received on this birthday "so far", as i know, some more presents are coming up in later times...haha...

• From friends
  

Few packets of extra big portion noodles

As this guy knew that noodles are my favourite =.="
Still, kinda good one..haha

A cute little fragrant candle

Santoku knife made in Japan, Cool!!!
Cum with sharpening stone(the one on the left)

Best part of it, with my name carved on it!haha...

4th Presents - Chef equipments bag

Top Layer

Bottom Layer

• From Colleagues
  

A warmth birthday card=)

• From Mum & Dad ( Purposely sent to Perth, all the way from Kuching!!huggzz )
  

A Hong's Healthy Medicated Diets
( this one is great)
THANKS MUM & DAD!!

Hehe..that's all that i have got so far...one more post coming up when i received the rest presents...wuahaha...anyway, with or without presents, biggest appreciation to those who directly or indirectly sent their warmth greetings to me!Thanks!

Birthday Cake for sis!

First, i would like to greet my sister "Haaappppyyy Birthhday"!Okie,sis, i found this strawberry cake somewhere and seems pretty cool, so thinking of making a post for you=).Replacement cake will be ready when i am back to kuching...haha...Anyway, enjoy your birthday and may your wish comes true.


With love,
Brothers in Perth

议论

Okie, i discovered this meaningful argumentative writing at my senior's blogspot and this article seems quite interesting to me..wuahaha...so i am thinking of making a post here for everyone...it is actually an old chinese article with moral value...some of you might heard about this short story before...but still, its a good article to share,take some time to read...thanks..=)

中国有一则寓言是这样的：一天，一个老翁和一个孩子用驴驮着货物上街去卖。
货物卖完后，孩子骑着驴回来，老翁跟着走。路人责备孩子不懂事，竟叫老人步
行。听了这样的议论，孩子和老翁便换了一个位置，可路人又说老人于心何忍，
竟让小孩子步行。老人赶忙将孩子抱到鞍上，路人又说他们残忍，不顾驴的死
活。于是，老翁和孩子都不骑驴，干脆牵着牲口走。可路人又笑他们傻，空着驴
不骑而徒步。最后，老翁对孩子叹息道：”我们没有别的办法了，只有抬着驴
走！”。

任何人做任何事难免会遭到议论。这里没有对错的问题，只是大家对事件的看法
有不同的切入点。对于别人的议论，我们该如何看待？

较为积极的态度，应是对之恭听，分析，判断，最后从这些议论中观照出自身
的一些缺点和错误，汲取经验和教训。而对于人言中的那些冷嘲热讽，捕风捉
影，无中生有，也就不需加以理会。要知道，我们无法阻止他人的议论纷纷，人
们常说”哪个背后无人说，哪个人前不说人”，以积极的态度面对，反而使人更加
成熟，更加坚强。

消极的态度是，一概的排斥，然后耿耿于怀，甚至怀恨在心，对他人做人生攻
击。这样的处理方式，会使人迷失，没有进取心，情感上产生裂痕。

这寓言要告诉我们，每个人都难免有遭人议论的时候，我们必须抱有积极的态
度，加以思考，不要被议论所左右，弄得不知是好。

刊登于2009年1月24日南洋商报“以我所见”专栏。

Copyrighted from Mr.Lee KS(Blogspot)

Missed-out items during hols =)

Finally, 2 months hols came to an end...but i think i missed out something which forgotten to share with you guys...during this long hols,i actually learnt to make some homemade dishes..obviously, thinking of home when making or enjoying these dishes...

First of all, my favourite dish, Kolo Mee...Still clear in memories that my family used to bring me to eat or order take-a-way kolo mee when i was back in kuching...especially when i was in primary school, i used to eat kolo mee every night after tuition, seems that i cant sleep without it...so basically practised this habit every night, "pack of kolo mee everyday before bed"..haha..


Well, the taste or appearance may not be 100% the same as the one i had in kuching...but things may differ from times to times...With years of "kolo mee" knowledges, i bet i probably gonna give myself 70 marks in terms of taste...for the ingredients, i am only capable of getting less than 40 marks with that fact that, i am still lack of nice and hot "char-sio meat"...but i gonna get to it soon...haha...

Next, we have Laksa Sarawak...but i guess i gonna entitle this as "Laksa Perth"...the reason is that , there's some differences from Original Laksa Sarawak...First, of course the taste is not 100% the same , but still i am quite satisfied with the taste...secondly, the size per serving...i must admitted that this bowl of laksa is truly "ang-mo" size which is double the original size...third is the ingredients...instead of chicken slices, i substituted that with steak slices...and also addition of fish ball...well again, things may differ from times to times...haha..


Anyway, i gonna try harder to improve the taste, ingredients and appearance of both dishes...by the way, i am learning Japanese Ramen at the moment, reading a book by a famous japanese ramen house called "Wagamama - Kaizen"...this book is actually a present given by exe. chef of Mercure Hotel, where i worked at the moment..Half way reading, i am actually proud that i am a chinese, because ramen is modified noodle from chinese egg noodles or kolo mee...so chinese is the inventor of noodles..=)

Okie, just a day before i started my class, which is the past sunday night, i actually went for a movie with a housemate and his friend...First time stepping into perth cinema, Hoyts...the feeling is quite cool for me as the designs and movie advertisements are superb and amazing...guess what, hoyts has a total of 15 cinemas..cool..alright,we watched a cantonese movie called "Yip Man"...Kinda martial arts movie which i loved...Movie plot is not bad though, just the ending is sort of unexpected...anyway, below are some photos of the cinema...

你，我，她

人与人之间，以什么为主？事与事之间，又以什么为启发点？某一天，在某一个角落，都会有人为此问题而烦恼，那又是何苦呢？

茫茫人海中，我们得以相遇，那既是缘分。缘分虽分类为“劣缘”和“善缘”，但又有谁能断定何谓“劣”与“善”？就如“黑”与“白”，何谓黑？又何谓白？

对于某些事，是不能以黑白来断定事情的结果，而是以“灰”来考量事情的启发点。如果非得有人来断定是黑，是白，还是灰，那这个人绝对不是他们，也不是你们，而是你，我，她，或简称“我们”。

既然是由我们来考量一件事的启发点，那事情的结果也必定掌握在我们的手中，而不是他人。

首先，先问问自己是否希望有什么样的结果？

• 你满意的结果？
• 我满意的结果？
• 她满意的结果？
• 他们满意的结果？
• 你们满意的结果？
• 还是，对我们最好的结果？
  

如果我们都能放下执著，放下猜疑，放下仇恨，那也未必不是对我们最好结果。

在这个世界上，谁会永远支持我们？谁会永远爱护我们？谁会愿意永远陪伴着我们？谁又愿意永远成为我们的避风港？

这个人未必是：

• 朋友
• 异性
• 长辈
• 晚辈
  

然而,这个人肯定是我们的“至亲”。而至亲当中，最愿意扮演这个角色的人必定是“家人”。再冷血的人，也不会对家人无情;再残忍的人,也不会伤害家人。

如果我们自认为是有血性，有人性，有感情的人，那就更不该朝日恶言相对来“抹杀”自己的家人。

没有人是十全十美的，既然是家人，那就应该包容，商量，相信，爱护以及珍惜对方。那么以来，即使是劣缘，也可以化劣为善，和睦共处。

而结果就是“一家团圆”。一家团圆是我们想要的结果吗？切记，最终决定在“我们”的手中。

乘现在还来得及，想清楚吧。不要到了无法挽回的地步，才后悔莫及，那已是于事无补。

这篇文章对事不对人，也没有其恶意，只是分享一些个人心得，谢谢！

A present for myself !!

Hmm...Two weeks to go before i gonna start my 2nd semester course...well, this school holidays is indeed a busy one for me...had been working a lot, but of course...i still have some time for my entertainment...haha...As a present for myself, i actually bought myself a cheap 2nd hand car...Well, this car cost me about 800 bucks...its an old model anyway...suzuki swift 1993, 3 yrs younger than i am...hehe..but i gonna need couples of hundreds bucks to get some problem sorted out...Obviously, it is impossible to get a car at the value of 800 bucks which is in an excellent condition...But one good thing about this car is that it is kinda fuel efficient, and also little zippy one in size, good for a student like me...hehe...so i gonna work harder in coming two weeks to earn a bit more so that able to get my car done...though it is a cheap old car, having my own car is actually kinda great feeling...A registered car under MY NAME!!And i bought this car with my own "hard-earned" money, not from anyone else!!!Wuahaha...But, nothing comes before an effort, so have to work for it...

Front View

Rear View
(Well, dont compare this car with the LANCER at the back =/)

Back View

Okie, below are some photos of my current home...hmmm....just a rented house anyway...No other purpose, just for my friends who would like to know about the area that i am staying right now..haha...=)


Hmmm...this house is pretty good actually, rooms and area around are quite large also...this area are quite peaceful, most of the neighbours are family and retiree...Usually there are neighbours who manage those gardenings, security and etc and its entirely, free-of-charge!! =)