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Friday, January 16, 2009

你,我,她

人与人之间,以什么为主?事与事之间,又以什么为启发点?某一天,在某一个角落,都会有人为此问题而烦恼,那又是何苦呢?

茫茫人海中,我们得以相遇,那既是缘分。缘分虽分类为“劣缘”和“善缘”,但又有谁能断定何谓“劣”与“善”?就如“黑”与“白”,何谓黑?又何谓白?

对于某些事,是不能以黑白来断定事情的结果,而是以“灰”来考量事情的启发点。如果非得有人来断定是黑,是白,还是灰,那这个人绝对不是他们,也不是你们,而是你,我,她,或简称“我们”。

既然是由我们来考量一件事的启发点,那事情的结果也必定掌握在我们的手中,而不是他人。

首先,先问问自己是否希望有什么样的结果?
  • 你满意的结果?
  • 我满意的结果?
  • 她满意的结果?
  • 他们满意的结果?
  • 你们满意的结果?
  • 还是,对我们最好的结果?
如果我们都能放下执著,放下猜疑,放下仇恨,那也未必不是对我们最好结果。

在这个世界上,谁会永远支持我们?谁会永远爱护我们?谁会愿意永远陪伴着我们?谁又愿意永远成为我们的避风港?

这个人未必是:
  • 朋友
  • 异性
  • 长辈
  • 晚辈
然而,这个人肯定是我们的“至亲”。而至亲当中,最愿意扮演这个角色的人必定是“家人”。再冷血的人,也不会对家人无情;再残忍的人,也不会伤害家人。

如果我们自认为是有血性,有人性,有感情的人,那就更不该朝日恶言相对来“抹杀”自己的家人。

没有人是十全十美的,既然是家人,那就应该包容,商量,相信,爱护以及珍惜对方。那么以来,即使是劣缘,也可以化劣为善,和睦共处。

而结果就是“一家团圆”。一家团圆是我们想要的结果吗?切记,最终决定在“我们”的手中。

乘现在还来得及,想清楚吧。不要到了无法挽回的地步,才后悔莫及,那已是于事无补。

这篇文章对事不对人,也没有其恶意,只是分享一些个人心得,谢谢!

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

A present for myself !!

Hmm...Two weeks to go before i gonna start my 2nd semester course...well, this school holidays is indeed a busy one for me...had been working a lot, but of course...i still have some time for my entertainment...haha...As a present for myself, i actually bought myself a cheap 2nd hand car...Well, this car cost me about 800 bucks...its an old model anyway...suzuki swift 1993, 3 yrs younger than i am...hehe..but i gonna need couples of hundreds bucks to get some problem sorted out...Obviously, it is impossible to get a car at the value of 800 bucks which is in an excellent condition...But one good thing about this car is that it is kinda fuel efficient, and also little zippy one in size, good for a student like me...hehe...so i gonna work harder in coming two weeks to earn a bit more so that able to get my car done...though it is a cheap old car, having my own car is actually kinda great feeling...A registered car under MY NAME!!And i bought this car with my own "hard-earned" money, not from anyone else!!!Wuahaha...But, nothing comes before an effort, so have to work for it...

Front View

Rear View
(Well, dont compare this car with the LANCER at the back =/)

Back View

Okie, below are some photos of my current home...hmmm....just a rented house anyway...No other purpose, just for my friends who would like to know about the area that i am staying right now..haha...=)


Hmmm...this house is pretty good actually, rooms and area around are quite large also...this area are quite peaceful, most of the neighbours are family and retiree...Usually there are neighbours who manage those gardenings, security and etc and its entirely, free-of-charge!! =)